When Did I Start Doing This For Me? How Choosing Yourself Changes Everything
Body Shay Ramsee Body Shay Ramsee

When Did I Start Doing This For Me? How Choosing Yourself Changes Everything

Here's a question I didn't know I needed to ask myself: Who am I actually doing this for?

I used to go to the gym with my ex. He was a personal trainer, so on paper, it looked perfect—couple goals, fitness journey, all that. He'd create these elaborate workout plans targeting every muscle group. I had access to expertise most people pay for. But here's the thing: I wasn't showing up for me.

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How I Became My Own Muse (And Why Self-Relationship Changes Everything)
Love Shay Ramsee Love Shay Ramsee

How I Became My Own Muse (And Why Self-Relationship Changes Everything)

For years, I chased inspiration from everyone but myself. Then I stopped performing and started building—a real relationship with myself across body, style, and mindset. This is the story of how I became The Blooming Muse, and why becoming your own source of inspiration changes everything about how you show up in the world.

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