My Cause
The Postcard Project
10,000 Conversations, One at a Time
Remember passing notes in high school—that thrill of unfolding paper to find someone's thoughts written just for you? Before texting turned everything into rapid-fire exchanges, we knew how to hold a conversation. We knew how to make someone feel seen.
This project is my way of bringing that back.
Moments like this matter . . .
When I first stepped away from social media to begin my self-love and self-relationship journey, it was hard and isolating—but it also gave me something precious: time. Time to invest in myself. Time to notice what I was actually craving.
And what I realized is that I was starving for real connection. Not likes or comments or carefully curated updates. I wanted face-to-face conversations that went deeper than "How are you?" "Good, you?"
Here's what I learned during that time: People are willing and wanting to tell someone their story—if only someone saw them, asked them, and listened.
But we live in a world where everything happens on social media, and we've forgotten how to have and hold conversations. We scroll past each other's lives instead of sitting with them. We react instead of respond. We perform instead of connect.
So I asked myself: How can I create reasons to spark real conversations? How can I make those moments memorable?
The answer was postcards.
I'm writing 10,000 personalized messages on my branded postcards—one for each woman I encounter in my everyday life. At the café. At the gym. At the airport. Wherever our paths cross.
Each interaction is different. Each message is written specifically for her—reflecting something I noticed, something we talked about, something I want her to remember.
I don't mail these postcards to hit a goal. I hand them directly to the women I meet. Every postcard is an act of presence. A practice in showing up. A way of saying: I saw you.
This moment matters.
Why 10,000? Because 10,000 is ambitious enough to be uncomfortable and specific enough to keep me accountable.
It's a number that will take years to reach—which means this isn't about a burst of inspiration. It's about consistency. It's about building a practice of connection that outlasts motivation.
10,000 postcards means 10,000 conversations. 10,000 women who felt seen. 10,000 small moments that might change someone's day—or their life, or the lives of everyone around them.
It's not about the destination. It's about who I become in the process of getting there.
What I Hope You Take From This
If this project inspires you, here's what I want you to know:
You don't need a grand gesture to make someone feel seen. You just need to show up and pay attention.
A handwritten note. A real question. Five uninterrupted minutes of listening. These are the things that change lives—not because they're impressive, but because they're rare.
This project has taught me that self-love isn't about big transformations or perfect routines. It's about small, consistent acts of care—for yourself and for the people around you.
And that's exactly what I help my clients build